While AOC’s political journey has played out under intense public scrutiny, her relationship has remained largely out of the spotlight. That changed in recent years, especially after the couple attended the 2021 Met Gala together and later confirmed their engagement in 2022.

So who exactly is Riley Roberts? Here’s everything we know about the man who’s been by AOC’s side through it all—from college to Capitol Hill.Riley Roberts and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez first met as students at Boston University when they were both 19. Their early relationship began in the familiar surroundings of campus life, where the two bonded over shared interests and deep conversations at events like Coffee and Conversations, a regular Friday discussion group for politically engaged students.

According to Business Insider, the forum allowed Roberts—known for his sharp intellect and love for challenging debates—to make an impression on peers, including AOC. Friends recall that Roberts often “stirred the pot,” encouraging lively discourse and matching AOC’s passion for ideas and advocacy.

Their relationship blossomed during college, but like many young couples, they went their separate ways after graduation. Roberts moved back to his home state of Arizona, while AOC stayed in New York to begin building her post-college life.

However, love had other plans. After several years apart, the two reconnected—and this time, it stuck.