The gift bag crinkled against my sweaty palm as I sat in my car outside the familiar two-story colonial house. Through the passenger window, I could see the same white picket fence that Gary had repainted every spring for the past decade, the same rose bushes my mother had planted when I was sixteen, now wild and overgrown in her absence. The June heat made the vinyl seats stick to my legs, but I couldn’t bring myself to get out of the car just yet.
Inside that gift bag was a watch—nothing fancy, just a simple silver timepiece from the department store, but I’d spent weeks picking it out. More importantly, tucked beneath the tissue paper was a card that had taken me three drafts to write. Words I’d never spoken aloud were carefully penned in my best handwriting, expressing a gratitude that had been building for years but never found its voice.
I was twenty-seven now, old enough to understand the weight of what Gary had done for our small family. When my mother married him twelve years ago, I was a gangly fifteen-year-old with trust issues and a chip on my shoulder the size of Texas. My biological father had walked out when I was barely two years old, leaving behind only a faded memory of aftershave and empty promises. For thirteen years, it had been just Mom and me against the world, and I wasn’t thrilled about adding a third wheel to our tight-knit duo.
But Gary—patient, steady Gary—had won me over slowly, like water wearing down stone. He never tried to force the “dad” role on me, never demanded respect or affection. Instead, he earned it through a thousand small acts of kindness. He fixed my bicycle chain without being asked, attended every soccer game even when I barely played, and somehow always knew exactly what to order for me at restaurants when I was too stubborn to speak up.