I got my husband his dream watch for our 10th anniversary. I had saved for months, imagining the look on his face when he opened it. When he did, he smiled wide, hugged me, and said it was perfect. Then he handed me a small gift bag with cheap perfume in a plastic bottle. I remember feeling disappointed, even insulted. I forced a smile, but inside, I was hurt. How could he put so little thought into something that meant so much to me?
That night, I tossed the perfume aside on the dresser, promising myself I’d never use it. I didn’t realize then how fleeting our time together would be. Just three weeks later, he died suddenly—no warning, no goodbye. The world stopped, and I was left with a pain so deep it felt like I couldn’t breathe. Everything we had shared over ten years played in my mind like a movie I couldn’t turn off.
One day, while cleaning, I found the perfume still sitting there, unopened. My heart broke as I held it, realizing it was the last gift he ever gave me. I opened the cap and the scent instantly filled the room—soft, familiar, and strangely comforting. It wasn’t cheap anymore; it was priceless. I wept, wishing I could go back, wishing I had thanked him, hugged him tighter, and told him how much I loved him.
Now, that bottle sits on my nightstand, not as a reminder of disappointment, but of love, loss, and perspective. Sometimes we measure love by the price of the gift, forgetting that presence is the most precious thing of all. I learned that too late—but I carry that lesson with me every day, and every breath of that perfume reminds me of the man I loved and the time I can never get back.