Geena Davis’s journey from sheltered New England girl to Oscar-winning icon is threaded with both terror and triumph. Raised by frugal, old-fashioned parents who chopped their own wood and banned everything but Disney, she grew up believing you never complained, never made a fuss. That rule nearly cost her life in a car with her 99-year-old great-uncle—and later trapped her in silence after a neighbor molested her on a newspaper route. The shame, confusion, and enforced politeness hardened into a lifelong lesson: don’t take up space, don’t speak.

Yet the very industry that tried to discard her at 40 could not erase her. She willed herself from catalog model to Tootsie, Beetlejuice, The Accidental Tourist, and the shattering power of Thelma & Louise. As the roles dried up, she turned outward—becoming a mother in midlife, fiercely guarding her children from the exploitation she knew too well, and founding the Geena Davis Institute on Gender in Media to confront Hollywood’s bias with data and defiance.

Today, at 69, still working and about to return in Netflix’s The Boroughs, she is living proof that a woman taught to be “too polite to live” can, in the end, rewrite the script—and claim her voice on her own terms.